Your email addy says "discalced carmelite." Is that the direction you're wanting to go?
Our Cloister Outreach Foundations will have the EFLR (TLM) and will accept "delayed" vocations, as long as there are no impediments. We have a couple of proposed Carmelite charisms that you might have interest in--we actually have an aspirant for the first one, with a few others discerning:
Carmelite Nuns of Perpetual Adoration:
http://cloisters.tripod.com/carmelites/
Children of the Kingdom of God:
http://cloisters.tripod.com/kingdom/
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